Last night I stopped by the JV girls' basketball game, and my little friend Makayla (age 3) immediately came to sit on my lap. She was really friendly for a little while; then came the question she had been waiting to ask, "Can I play with your phone?" "Well," I said, "I don't think so - I don't want it to get dropped and broken." Immediately she slid off my lap and down the bleachers to her mom's lap. Why waste any more time if you know what you want isn't going to happen!